Lola Jean – Quick ‘N’ Dirty: Choking for Pleasure
Even if you are not intending to reach someone passing out, you still need to make sure you and your partner are both informed of what to do if this happens, how it happens, and what signs to look out for. There are too many injuries that can easily be avoided with proper education.
Choking education and knowledge is not only for those administering the chokes. For those receiving, you have an opportunity to learn what types of chokes are out there and what sensation you enjoy–or not!
WATCH THE 5 PART SERIES + ACCESS TO COMPANION VIDEOS AND ARTICLES
- UNDERSTAND THE DIFFERENT TYPES OF CHOKING
- NEGOTIATION
- SAFETY
- CONSENT
You may not know what type of choking you or your partners are into and that’s okay! The neck is a very sensitive and delicate area. Even so much as resting your hand on your neck can feel invasive, let alone someone else’s!
I REMEMBER THE FIRST TIME SOMEONE CHOKED ME.
I wasn’t remotely ‘into’ bdsm at the time, nor did I have much awareness of the topic. I’d call myself sexually adventurous, sure, but i didn’t know what that really meant. I’m lucky, I thought. I’m lucky that I enjoyed choking. we should be so lucky to roll the dice and find our one true fetish or kink. Turns out, I wasn’t lucky. I don’t like the physical sensation of choking and was more drawn to the mental aspects of control being exerted physically. In that scenario, I was attracted to the novelty of something new and salacious. I didn’t have the opportunity to learn different types of choking, the draws to each before I decided which one was for me.
Part of consent is both parties being informed and that information is specific. There is more to negotiating choking than saying ‘okay we’re both going to choke each other.’ Especially when dealing with something that has such a wide range from a light fantasy choke to someone passing out! No matter what type of choke you are doing you should never apply pressure to the front of the throat where the trachea and windpipe lie.
Explore the dynamics of breath play with Lola Jean’s bold and informative course, Quick ‘N’ Dirty: Choking for Pleasure. This class offers a comprehensive, safety-first approach to consensual choking, blending anatomy, psychology, and technique. Learn how to confidently and responsibly engage in this form of edge play with clear communication, trust-building, and awareness of physical and emotional responses. Ideal for curious couples, kink explorers, and educators looking to expand their skill set while prioritizing consent, safety, and mutual pleasure.
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