James Bauer – What Men Secretly Want

James Bauer – What Men Secretly Want

Right Here, Right Now
Is The Surprising Reason Men Aren’t
Committing To You, And EXACTLY How
To Get Them To Commit And Say “YES” Now!
Hello,
My name is James Bauer.
If you’ve ever wanted to know how to truly understand any man, then this is the most important letter you’ll ever read.
You’re going to discover a secret “loophole” in the male mind that will allow you to truly connect with any man, and get him to commit to you for good.
You’ll also learn about a simple shift you can make to see the world through a different lens; a lens that will reveal exactly what men are thinking and what they really want in a woman.
Read on to discover how you can use this powerful principle in your life to become more attractive to men and have an incredible relationship starting today.
Let me ask… have you ever:
1
Had a feeling that things were going well with your man, but somehow knew that something was wrong and had a feeling of dread that you can’t quite place?
2
Tried to have “The Talk” with your boyfriend to figure out the status of your relationship only to have him suddenly go cold at even the mention of commitment?
3
Been in a relationship with an amazing guy before he suddenly became distant and his whole attitude changed, and before you knew it he was gone?
4
Felt things were going great with a guy, (could be your boyfriend or husband) and you want to do everything in your power to make sure the relationship not only survives, but thrives?
5
Wondered if he really loves you, or if he’s bored in the relationship?
6
Just wanted to make a guy see that inside you’re the perfect girl for him, and together you would make the perfect couple and live an amazing life together?
Well, you’re definitely not
alone in these experiences.
As a relationship consultant, I hear unfortunate stories like this all the time. But when the problem hit a little too close to home, I knew I had to do something about it.
You’re about to discover a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand.
This same Gap has the biggest impact on the success or failure of a relationship, yet hardly anyone talks about it.
The good news is, if you know how to bridge The Gap, it’s possible for you to enjoy a rare kind of relationship most women simply can’t imagine; a bright and vivid romance that makes life exciting and worth living.
The Lunch That
Changed Everything
Since I’m a relationship consultant, I get asked for relationship advice from a lot from my female friends.
A short time ago, I agreed to sit down for lunch with a woman that I have known for a long time.
She was experiencing an emotionally painful situation that I had heard of many times before. She had met a new guy at work. At first things were exciting and seemed to be going really well.
It started with tantalizing phone calls and texts, and soon moved on to romantic dates she would rush home to tell her friends about. For weeks she thought everything was going perfect. They would spend all night talking and they would “text flirt” all throughout the workday.
One day, while on a date with him, she couldn’t help but feel so good about how things were going. They had an amazing, romantic night together. They gushed on the phone that night about what the future held and the night ended really well.
That’s where
things went bad…
During their next nightly call, he suddenly became very silent. She had never known him to be like that before; he was usually so cheerful and romantic. She tried to figure out what was wrong, but he just said he was tired and had to go.
But that was just the beginning.
She tried to call him the next day and again he ended the call a lot sooner than normal. Soon her texts started to go unanswered and before long they stopped all together. She never heard from him again.
She didn’t want to tell her friends about it because of how many times she had told them he was “the one” and how amazing everything was.
That night she went to sleep wondering if she was just terminally flawed when it came to dating. Maybe she was just meant to be single forever and never know what it was like to have a secure and loving relationship.
The next morning she woke up to the same feeling of dread and loneliness she had had for years. She was in so much pain she couldn’t even go to work, so she decided it was time to call me up.
It was hard for me to hear. There was so much pain in her voice.
Unfortunately I hear this story all the time.
The worst part is, she didn’t even know what she was doing wrong or why he didn’t call back. I care deeply about this girl, and I was very familiar with this specific problem.

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As we sat there and talked, an idea struck me like a lightning bolt.
That past week I had been trying to understand and solve a similar, but unrelated problem for a course I was creating primarily for men. With a surge of excitement, it suddenly occurred to me that both issues were actually very related. It all had to do with a primal driving force in all men that few, if any, are even aware of.
Using a little creative problem solving, I quickly formulated a simple solution I was confident would work for any situation.
The answer had been right in front of me. It’s something that I now call The Respect Principle, and it’s the biggest key for getting any man to want to truly commit to you.
Once I told her about the insight and solution I had (which really only took about ten minutes to explain) she completely lit up. I didn’t expect her to believe me so quickly, but she seemed to instinctively get it. She knew what she had to do differently and she was eager to put her new knowledge into action.
For her it became a story with a fairy tail ending.
She’s now engaged to an amazing man that adores her for who she is because she actually understands the way he thinks and the way he experiences relationships.
But for so many women out there, things just aren’t as easy. They don’t understand this vital principle.
The root of the problem actually comes from a deep misunderstanding that you see everywhere in the media and popular shows and magazines.
Sometimes it happens during the attraction phase, and sometimes the same root problem manifests much later when talk of marriage and commitment comes up.
But the good news is: It’s not your fault, and there’s a clear and effective plan for easily overcoming the problem.
The key is understanding men on a deep emotional level, and how the subtle things you say to a man affect him much more than you might think. (When you know how to do this, you’ll be able to deeply connect with a man, and powerfully attract him.)
Let me show you what I mean.
The TRUTH About
How Men Think…
Research on how men think reveals a surprising fact: There’s a vast divide in the way men and women think.
I know… I know… that’s not exactly breaking news. But the specific thing I’m talking about is something that very few women understand, and it’s absolutely critical to truly connecting with men on a deep emotional level.
I’m talking about something that saturates his mental and emotional experience so much that he would have a hard time explaining it to you because he doesn’t even realize it’s there.
To put it simply…
If Given a Choice, Men Would
Rather Be Respected Than Loved.
In other words: Men are powerfully attracted to women who trigger feelings of respect and admiration in them. (This is key)
Now, you probably feel like you have a pretty clear picture of what this means, but it’s more of a deep-seated issue than you might think.
Now consider that even with this confusion, 74% of men said they would rather feel unloved than disrespected!
So what does this have to do with getting a man to commit to you?

EVERYTHING!
When you understand this principle, you’ll have unfair advantage that steals a man’s attention and makes you irresistibly attractive to him.
Every other woman will pale in comparison and you’ll be the only thing on his mind when he sees you as the one woman that truly gets him.
So, How Does The
Respect Principle Work?
Well, we’re not talking about respect like in the “Godfather” movies, but more like this…
Here’s what it looks like: I recently shared this very principle with a women that felt like her marriage was slipping away and needed some help from me.
After I shared everything with her, it was like the secret world of how men think was suddenly revealed to her.
Things that used to baffle her suddenly made perfect sense.
When he went cold and silent, she new exactly why and how she had accidentally triggered it.
So she started to make simple changes like I recommended.
They were just simple things like changing just one word in her language in certain situations. Others were simple shifts in her attitude that made a massive difference in his.
Before she knew it, they felt exhilarated to be in each other’s company, and things just keep getting better for her. In her own words she said: “It feels like we’re going through the honeymoon phase again”
And that’s just the beginning. Things will continue to snowball in their relationship, and their love will continue to grow more and more.
Because you want someone that truly understands you. It’s that deep connection that emotionally bonds you with another person.
It’s the kind of togetherness you feel when you know that you’re braving the world with your other half… someone that knows you just as well, or better than you know your self. That’s what we all want right?
Well that’s definitely what your man wants… he just doesn’t know how to say it.
He wants these things as badly as you do. He just sees the world in a much different way.
So few women really “get” the respect principle. But when you do, you’ll know how to subtly show him through your actions that you truly understand him, and his attraction and devotion towards you will soar. This hidden issue was responsible for serious pain and frustration in countless women’s lives.
But when you have The Respect Principle, you’ll have the most powerful secret weapon there is for understanding, attracting, and committing any man!
When I saw how well this advice worked for these women outside of a professional setting, something inside me told me how important it was to get this information out there.
So I decided right then and there that I was going to do everything I could to show women everywhere how they can easily overcome “The Gap” and create the love and security they’ve always been looking for in a relationship.
I offered the advice to women in any of these frustrating situations:
She’s in a great relationship, but the man suddenly starts to draw away and she doesn’t know why and maybe even feels like it was something she did wrong.
During the attraction phase, she always finds herself sabotaging her own dating success by saying what she thinks he wants to hear but are really driving them farther apart.
She wants to upgrade their relationship to marriage status, but fails miserably while trying to have “The Talk” and afterwards things just don’t feel the same anymore.
Even though she feels like he could be the one because he’s a great guy, she just feels like he hasn’t really seen “the real her” and wants a true emotional connection.
They tested the idea out in their lives, and almost immediately there was an explosion of interest. The real-life results I started to hear back were remarkable.
So I started improving the basic formula as I got feedback from all these women, and it grew to be more and more effective.
Every night I would write for hours after work compiling all of the amazing results and making the formula even better.
Then finally, not too long ago. I finished the complete guide into what it is today.
I was amazed at how fast the word was spreading about it. The Respect Principle guide had the secret power to change thousands of women’s lives. I just needed to share it with more and more people, and if it kept spreading like it already was it could potentially fix this problem that was harming so many relationships out there.
Once the guide was finished, I started getting tons of emails from friends of friends asking if they could get a copy because it sounded like exactly what they needed.
I was happy to help them out, and responses just kept pouring in.
Want to know the best part? You can use this powerful guide and make the shift in thinking that can bring a level of respect, love, and security in your relationships that you never imagined was possible!
You’ll be able to understand any man, know his inner desires, and be able to draw him as you say the exact things that will attract him to you on a primal level.
I must admit that I’m extremely excited for you to get your hands on this guide. This is the exact kind of powerful active ingredient of change that I had been looking for for so long.
How To Get Inside His Mind
Of course this guide wouldn’t be complete if I didn’t share some of the “nitty gritty” on how to really get inside his mind.
This is the real secret to having a fulfilling relationship with a man.
If you want to trigger strong feelings of attraction and adoration in your man, you have to know how to get on the same frequency with him.
Imagine never having to deal with his silent treatment again. (Which is just really code for “I’m angry but don’t want to talk about it”.)
When you know how to read him and know what he’s thinking and feeling, unpleasant situations like the silent treatment will be a thing of the past.
But it gets much better than that.
Have you ever wanted a guy that “goes through the motions”?
These are the types of things guys do when they really appreaciate you and want you to know that you’re always on their mind.
You’ll notice these and many other dramitic changes in your man when yu start using The Respect Principle.
You’ll suddenly be one of those women that’s just “Lucky with men” and has the kind of relationship that so many women want.
This is the guide to the male mind that I wished for so long that I could give to my clients… but now you can have access to it today and start seeing results as early as tonight!
So finally, without further ado, I’m excited to introduce to you:
The Be Irresistible Guide To
What Men Secretly Want
This guide is the “Bible” for understanding, attracting, and committing any man.
In my practice and experience helping women overcome their frustrations with dating and men, I’ve found that The Respect Principle is the number one most critical factor in success or failure.
In my new guide, I’m going to take you by the hand and show you exactly how to create a powerful connection with a man, and make it his enthusiastic choice to commit to you for the long term.
This short but revealing guide has been loaded with real-world experience from real couples and real situations. I’m extremely excited for you to get these secrets in your hands and start using them to attract the man of you dreams.
Here Are Just A Few
Of The Secrets You’ll
Discover In This
Powerful Guide:

The secret of connecting with a man on a deep and emotional level so he can meet the real you… (Most men are “put off” by women’s social masks, and want nothing more than to get to know what you’re really like)- pg.59.
Why the vast majority of men literally can’t hear you when you talk to them in a certain way… And how to use this as your advantage over other women! – pg. 17
The critical response you must know if he ever gets quiet and doesn’t want to talk. (Most women have no clue about this and often do irreversible damage to their relationshiop on accidet) – pg. 34.
Dagerous words and phrases that affect a man much more than you might realize. (Most women use this without even knowing it, and accidentally kill their man’s attraction towards them) – pg. 19.
What NEVER to say to a man if you ever want him to see you as long-term relationship material. (Unfortunately, most women still don’t know about this) – pg. 21
A simple mental shift you make that instantly makes you better girlfriend material than any girl he knows. – pg. 65
Being a friend and trying to be helpful to a guy is a good way to enter into “Girlfriend Territory” right? Wrong! This guide explains why so many women accidentally end relationship this way. – pg. 13
WARNING: Avoid these 2 common mistakes most women make like the plague. Ignoring this single warning could leave you single forever, never knowing why… – pg. 18, pg. 23
How to make yourself sexier in his mind than any woman he’s ever met by treating him differently than other women he meets. – pg. 24
Are you making this common mistake around his friends and don’t even know it? (How even good girlfriend accidentally drive their men away) – pg. 21

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The amazing “Asking For Directions” trick that will make him long to protect and love you. This simple secret alone will raise you above any other women in his eyes. – pg. 15
Can trying to be helpful to a man secretly “lrk” him? Yes. But when you understand why, you’ll be able to use it to get him to open up instead!
How to build sexy inner confidence that mesmerizes men and establishes a permanent spot in their mind. This is just one of the beneficial “side effects” that comes from truly understanding how men think. – pg. 25
Do you think it’s OK to cry when you’re upset? Most women instantly say “Of course.” But what about when a man gets upset? Here’s what his version of “crying” looks like, and how you can respond in a way that will actually increase his desire for you. – pg.17
If you constantly find yuourself saying things to a man that don’t really sound like yourself. The Respect Principle is your key to getting him to love you for who you are. – pg. 10
BETTER THAN BODY LANGUAGE: Try this potent attraction technique tonight. It only takes two minutes and he won’t even know why he’s suddenly so drawn to you. – pg. 88
How The Respect Principle can quickly and easily make men intensely desire you. (Once you master it, the possible applications are endless. It works remakrably well no matter what stage of the relationship you’re in!) – pg. 24
How to speak to men in language that touches a primal inner part of their mind and become a constant source of excitement, interest, and pursuit for them. pg-83.
How to make yourself sexier in his mind than any woman he’s ever met by treating him differently than other women he meets. – pg. 24
And much, much more in this empowering guide.

Here’s What Women Are Saying About
‘What Men Secretly Want’
“I purchased your program only just today and already I feel so much better. My previous interactions with my S.O. (Brian) have been amazing up until lately.
I’m glad I read your work before he and I did any irreparable harm to our relationship. Your information definitely changes his perception of me. I didn’t have to change myself at all but a small shift in how I conveyed myself to him made a world of difference in his understanding.
…I won’t quote it all because it was a long email, but here are some of the things he said:
“when you phrase it that way it makes much more sense to me”
“I’m determined to make sure we get some quality time together”
and he closed with: “I wanted to let you know that your email is appreciated, stress relieving, and that I love you.”
I’m going to reread your information, listen to the MP3 lecture later today, and keep my eye on the goal: a happy relationship with my s.o. that I love so much and who treats me so well.
Thank you so much for your help!”
– SARAH L
Hi James,
I love your emails and I love your ebook “What Men Secretly Want”. I am still reading it and I am learning a tone of wonderful things. I love how you explain things and I love how you use psychology to illustrate us the human nature.
It will be so usefu,l if this material could be teach as an elective at High School. It will help in general to live in a more harmonious, caring and loving world.
I love men. I grew up with five brothers and I get along really well with guys. Today I read about the “mirror neurons” and I got tears in my eyes when I read about Jennifer. I have the same skills as her, it comes natural to me to relate to others at this emotional levels that really connect me with people and people are drawn to me like a magnet. I never knew why, until today.
Thank you so much for writing this ebook and for wanting that women and men get the best out of each other.
Ciao
MELISSA
“James
I love this tip, I am shy and tongue tied when it comes to men, but I’m told I have a great smile and “look good”, so that is going to be one of my affirmations from now on. It may take the pressure off of “what do I say”. Enjoying Respect for Men and see many things I do that over rides them and not considerate. Like asking for directions when we are lost! Even fixing things, yes, I’ve seen tinkering with tools that don’t work, and not known how to respectfully say so. I am very self sufficient and come off bossy, but I almost can’t help myself seeing it is all wrong.
I see you all mostly work together here, and so I am finding Kara Oh’s Feminine Grace helpful. Now I know you are thinking is this girl shy—yes, initially, until I am feeling familiar in a situation—but then the other side of me also plays out and isn’t good either.
Thanks I’m learning a lot.
MEGAN P
I love your emails and I love your ebook “What Men Secretly Want”. I am still reading it and I am learning a tone of wonderful things. I love how you explain things and I love how you use psychology to illustrate us the human nature.
KACY
* Some names have been changed to protect privacy
These are just a few of the amazing results I’ve been seeing, and it’s been extremely rewarding. But while it’s always great to read about other’s success, can it work for you?
Can The Respect Principle
Really Work For You?
When I started giving this guide out to women, I knew it would have some impact, but there was no way I could anticipate how well it would work.
The other surprising thing was how many different ways these women started using it in their lives.
Is ‘What Men Secretly Want’ For You?
Well… it may not be for you if:

You have an endless supply of men who are high quality, great men that are exactly your type… and each of them is ready to drop everything and commit fully to you, so you can pick and choose…
You’re already in a loving, fantastic relationship with the man of your dreams and he’s the one hinting at getting married…
You’re already married to ‘Mr. Right’, and you have no doubt you’re both going to grow old together…
When you go out with your friends, it’s YOU who women are jealous and envious of, because AMAZING men line up to get a chance to talk to you…
When you’re out on a date, the guy you’re with doesn’t even notice the attractive waitress walk by or any other woman in the room for that matter, because he’s so smitten with you…
You know exactly what a man is thinking and feeling, and he’s like an open book with you because he trusts and loves you so much…

This guide is for you if:

You’re feeling stuck and unable to create a connection with a guy, and get him to be devoted to you, open up to you, and love you forever…
You’re tired of having men become distant, emotionally closed, withdrawn, or even disappear with no explanation…
You refuse to go one more night waiting by the phone wondering if he’s going to text or call you.
You can’t seem to find the right guy, or keep attracting guys then somehow “messing up” and having to start over again.
You feel that trying to figure out what a man is thinking and feeling is like trying to solving a Rubix cube…
You’re afraid of getting hurt again by a man who checks out other women when you’re out, or leaves you… and ends up committing to, settling down with, and even marrying some other woman…
You’re still kicking yourself about getting too intimate with a man. (perhaps more than one man) And no matter what you did, he disappeared out of your life… and you’re afraid of making the same disastrous mistake again…

My biggest desire for you is to have the kind of exciting, satisfying, and loving relationship you deserve, and this guide is like me working with you personally to make sure you have this new-found ability with men.
If you want a real relationship where you’re not only cherished, but also constantly thought of, romanced and treated like the beautiful woman you are, this guide is for you.
Here’s How You Can Start
Using The Respect Principle Today
If you want to get ‘What Men Secretly Want’ today and start using it by tonight, here’s how you can do it.
Unfortunately I can’t personally give you a couple hours of consultation, but I actually have something much better than that for you.
Normally the options would be:
Option one: You could hire me to coach and train you one-on-one, which would be a lot more effective than trial and error… but it would still be an investment of several hundred dollars.
Option two: You could hire a private therapist, and just cross your fingers, hoping they are knowledgeable about the keys to attracting men. But it’s unlikely that he’s had the real-life trial and error that I’ve been fortunate to gain with this powerful guide.
But luckily, today I’m going to offer you a much easier solution.
The ‘What Men Secretly Want’ Guide
I’ve distilled the complete formula into an easily consumable guide that you can download and read this evening, and start to use just as quickly.
It’s conveniently in PDF format so you can download it now and be able to easily attract and commit any man.
Once you have this, just like with the other women fortunate enough to have had access to this guide, you’ll notice almost miraculous results with men.
But for The Respect Principle to actually work for you, you have to integrate it into your life and relationships.
So I’ve included these free bonuses to ensure your success!